Vad leder till att Don och Betty blir skilda på galna män?

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Genom de första tre årstiderna av galna män är Don och Bettons relation (och Don's indiscretions) ett primärt fokus.

Vilka faktorer bidrog till att lösa sitt äktenskap?

    
uppsättning stevvve 22.05.2012 21:36

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** SPOILERS **

Medan det finns många möjliga faktorer som bidrar till att Don och Betty blir skilda, baserade på vad vi tittarna ser, är dessa de mest skarpa bidragsgivare:

fusk

Både Don och Betty hade utomäktenskapliga angelägenheter. Det som följer är en lista över människorna som båda hade relationer med utanför sitt äktenskap.

Don:
Midge Daniels (Säsong 1)

Don och Midge genomförde en kontinuerlig affär under den första säsongen. Hennes liv som konstillustratör låter henne experimentera fritt med marijuana med andra Beatnicks och "Proto-Hippies", liksom andra älskare än Don. Don avslutar förhållandet i slutet av säsong 1 efter att ha sett en bild av henne med en annan man.


Rachel Menken (Säsong 1)


MenkenärchefförenhennesfamiljensvaruhusMenken,sommöterDonpåetttävlingsmötepåSterlingCooper.NärPeteCampbellförsökerutpressaDon,föreslårdensenareattRachelgårmedhonomien"flykt" till Los Angeles. Rachel rebuffs, Don fortsätter, och förhållandet slutar när hon kallar honom en "coward" på den insikten att Don bara ville springa, inte springa med henne . ( Wiki )

Bobbie Barrett (säsong 2)

Bobbie Barrett (Melinda McGraw) is the wife of comedian Jimmy Barrett (born Jimmy Bernstein) (Patrick Fischler), an insult comic reminiscent of Don Rickles, who the firm uses in their advertisements for Utz Potato Chips. After Jimmy insults the wife of Utz's owner about her weight, Don has to intercede and ends up meeting Bobbie, also Jimmy's manager, who shrugs off her husband's behavior. On the way to get Jimmy to apologize to the Schillings, Bobbie seduces Don, though he initially resists as he is determined to remain faithful to his marriage vows, despite previous infidelities. When Bobbie later tries to get more money from Don (in a bathroom of the restaurant they and Schillings are at for the apology) in exchange for the pay-or-play contract of her husband's, Don grabs her hair with one hand and puts the other up her skirt and his fingers up further still, then threatens to ruin Jimmy. Bobbie appears to enjoy the attention, and then quickly makes her husband apologize. Later, she comes to Don with a TV pitch called, "Grin and Barrett," a sort of Candid Camera-type show, except with her husband using his insult comic skills as the host. Don helps her arrange things and they continue to see each other on the side until the two are in a car accident that requires a cover up story. The two resume their affair after a brief hiatus following the accident but the affair ends when Bobbie reveals to Don that she and other women with whom Don has had affairs have been talking about his prowess as a lover. Upset to learn that he has a "reputation" and annoyed at his inability to control Bobbie, Don leaves Bobbie during the middle of a sexual encounter while she is tied up. Later, during a party, where Don and Bobbie and their spouses are in attendance, Jimmy reveals to Betty, Don's wife, that Don and Bobbie have had an affair. Betty is humiliated and kicks Don out of the home for a time. Though Betty may have suspected affairs in the past, Don's affair with Bobbie appears to be the only affair Betty actually knows about. Don later encounters Jimmy in an underground casino where he delivers a solid punch to Jimmy's face and knocks him off his feet, which Jimmy later disparages as nothing. (Wiki)

Joy(säsong2)

Efter impulsivt beslut att följa med Pete Cambell på affärsresa till Los Angeles möter Don en europeisk viscount med en 21-årig dotter som heter Joy. De två sover tillsammans efter att Don går med viscount och hans familj på en resa till Palm Springs och avslutar relationen när han avgår för att besöka sin gamla vän Anna. ( Wiki )

Suzanne Farrell (säsong 3)

At the beginning of Season 3, Suzanne Farrell (Abigail Spencer) is Sally Draper's homeroom teacher. She engages in an extended period of flirtation with Don, and eventually enters into a sexual relationship with him. ... At the end of Season 3, Don signals a desire to strengthen their relationship, but his plans are scuttled when Betty unexpectedly returns home from a vacation and confronts Don about his past. (Wiki)

Betty:
Slumpmässigkilleibaren(speladav Ryan McPartlin )

Efter att ha upptäckt att hon är gravid i den sista episoden av säsong 2, möter Betty en främling i en bar och har sex med honom. ( Wiki )

Henry Francis

Henry Francis (Christopher Stanley) is a Republican political advisor who serves as the Director of Public Relations and Research in the Governor's Office under New York Governor Nelson Rockefeller and, later, is an advisor to New York City Mayor John Lindsay. He is instantly infatuated with Betty Draper when he meets a six-months pregnant Betty at the Sterling's Kentucky Derby party. Later, when Betty calls him to ask if he can use his influence to save a local reservoir, they develop a personal connection. Betty reciprocates Henry's attention because she increasingly feels no connection with Don due to his non-stop infidelities, lies over his true identity, and his sometimes verbally abusive attitude towards her. After the death of Betty's beloved father, the much older Henry also serves as a replacement father-figure for her. Henry and Betty have only a few brief and furtive meetings before Henry proposes marriage in the wake of the Kennedy assassination. Season 3 ends with the two of them on a plane with baby Gene, presumably flying to Reno so Betty can obtain a quick divorce from Don. (Wiki)

Don döljer sitt förflutna

The name "Don Draper" is an alias; his given name is Richard "Dick" Whitman. Draper was born in Illinois to a 22-year-old prostitute, who died giving birth to him. He was subsequently taken in by his biological father Archibald "Archie" Whitman and stepmother Abigail. When Dick Whitman was 10 years old, his biological father was killed by a spooked horse that kicked him in the face during an electrical storm; Dick witnessed this. Subsequently, Abigail, Dick and his half brother Adam moved to Pennsylvania (described by Draper as "coal country") and were raised by Abigail and a man referred to as "Uncle Mac".

In Episode 11 (of Season 3), Don is cornered by Betty, who has managed to unearth evidence of Don's past life via pictures and documents from a locked drawer in his desk. He tells her about his life as Dick Whitman, how he came to exchange dog tags with Lieutenant Don Draper, and his half-brother Adam's suicide. While apparently somewhat sympathetic to his feelings of guilt about the latter, Betty is highly conflicted about the fact that Don has hidden this aspect of his life from her for the duration of their relationship and marriage.

Sammanfattning:
Dons vanliga utomäktenskapliga angelägenheter, och hans lögn när han konfronterades av Betty, resulterade i att hon inte kunde lita på honom. Att inte dela sitt sanna förflutna med Betty drev henne längre bort, och troligen lämnade Betty känslan som att hon inte ens kände mannen hon giftades med.

Betty, kände sig alienerad och ensam, sökte den uppmärksamhet hon behövde från en annan man.

Andra faktorer, inklusive Don, som arbetar sent, har ett humör och har sin psykiater skickar Don-transkript och -band från sina möten (som hon upptäckte tillsammans med material som dokumenterar Dons sanna identitet), utan tvekan bidrog till deras upplösning.

    
svaret ges 22.05.2012 21:36
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Don och Betty älskade bara tanken på varandra. På andra sidan såg de perfekt ut. Båda var snygga, charmiga och hade ett bra sexliv. Dos mamma-problem gjorde det emellertid omöjligt för honom att vara trogen mot Betty. Han försöker men misslyckas varje gång.

Både Don och Betty håller inte riktigt prata om sina problem. Under sitt äktenskap försöker Don sitt bästa för att hålla Betty glad men hon pratar aldrig med honom om vad som stör henne. Hon håller det för sig själv och det gör henne till en bitter person.

Don öppnar sig mer för sina älskarinnor än han gör mot Betty eftersom han är rädd för att inte vara den perfekta mannen hon tror att han är. Han vet att om hon kände den riktiga honom skulle hon inte vilja vara med honom. Men det var det faktum att han ljög för henne så länge som gjorde hennes fil för skilsmässa, det och det faktum att hon redan var kär i Henry, en man som hon hade en affär med.

    
svaret ges 02.08.2013 02:07